The one where its all deperate.

Have you ever been so desperate for time, that you've fantasized about some of it all to yourself. I guess that's what happens when you have a baby. They soak away time from your life like a sponge. Maybe that's why god made them so innocent looking and cute. So that they can instantly also be forgiven.

Anyway, I will proceed by clearing any misconceptions you may have about me hating children. They're a blessing. I'm focusing on a whole different aspect of life.

I feel women who don't have sisters get very lonely when their friends are not around. For a woman that's not healthy, we speak our way to healthy living and a light heart. And I truly think the moment we don't hear ourselves, ramble out about our lives and worries etc, we don't get a good perspective on life. I think it's crucial for us to unload, every now and then. Or else it would lead to, aimlessness and improper decision making. Living in the spur of the moment is a very immature ideology, one that sounds great, but is quite the opposite.

It's important to have time to reflect. Or use whatever time we do get, to reflect. Reflect on where life is, and where it's taking us and where we'd want to be. I often feel the feeling of losing out on allot of opportunities makes us just want to achieve then as soon as possible, when actually they wouldn't make much sense now. When one is young, their priorities are different, and so are the lists of aims. And as we grow, it's important to also grow out of these aims, and focus on only what's crucial. On that which; doesn't compromise the present.  And for this we need to reflect. We need to undertake a life restructuring process. It's better to reflect and think than regret later.

We as human beings don't realize, we had the capability to not commit the mistakes we did. We take our free time for granted, and hurry certain things up. The epidemic of making life so busy that, even a vacation becomes more or less like an errand on the calender to be performed.  We don't enjoy the fruits of our hard-work. Instead, pile our few minutes with more work as soon as we get them. And label it as not wasting time. I believe time is wasted more when it's not used to fantasize about heaven, about our future, reflect on our way of life and how to improve it. So that everyday ends with pleasure and not exhaustion. This will also lead to a more fulfilling life. Instead of trying the first thing that pops into our heads.

In a nut shell, we need to emerge out of our 'busy lives', take time out to reflect and fantasize just a bit, so as to attain our lifes potential.